7 Habits of highly effective teens

Habit 4

4. think win-win

Teens can learn to foster  the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere an atmosphere of Win-Win every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. WIN-WIN is a belief that everyone can win. it’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you . it’s both of us it’s not matter of who gets either you or me . there more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all-you-can eat buffet.

Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking win-win is the good feeling it bring on. The test of whether or not you are thinking win-win or one of the alternative is how you feel. Win-lose thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feeling

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